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Welcome to another of my guide Melinda’s Friday messages about how to live life. If you’d like to know more about her and what she has to say you can find more in the first post in this series.

How can you get what you want when you are not listening?

I see so many people asking to be clear about what they want, looking for answers, getting readings, and not finding the thing they need in the process. It is quite the contradiction that most of these people know what they want. They often even know how to get it. Yet they turn their clarity into questions and end up just standing still.

Listen to your friends. Are their statements of truth concealed behind a question mark?

One of the most powerful things that can come from a good reader is how to frame the question you are actually asking. That is to say what is you already know and are not owning up to. Is there any uncertainty at all about what you want. Do not get me wrong getting confirmation is helpful if you are clear that this is what you are doing. Often the real question is about how to accomplish the goal or overcome the fear that is holding a person you back and not abbot what the goal is. .

Let me suggest that you think about your uncertainties. Write one out and then turn the wording around so it is a statement of desire or a goal. If it helps think of me sitting behind you and pointing out every time you are hedging about this process. Then go and say this statement to someone. Post it in the comments. You have to take action in order to create motion.

I look forward to hear of your new clarity.
Thanks for reading
Melinda

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